Sometimes simple, sweet words of encouragement can go a long way with someone. I remember crossing paths with my daughter’s former high school classmate, she was all grown up. I told her how proud I was of her, seeing her as a woman today. In that moment, the words I shared with her brought tears to her eyes. I could not have guessed that a small gesture of acknowledgement could evoke such emotion in another person. This encounter with my daughter’s classmate serves as a great reminder to make sure I regularly make time to reach out to those around me and let them know they are seen. I pray we all remember to be present enough to connect with someone else and witness their journey in this life. We never know what others could be going through and our words of encouragement may have the power to help them through their challenges.

I wrote in last month’s newsletter how bitterness, resentment, and unforgiveness can occur when we hold on to old hurts, wounds, or disappointments. What if instead of harboring pain from our past we instead focused on offering encouragement to one another? We could free ourselves from the weight of emotional and mental anguish while also uplifting others. Helping to free others from the bonds of old wounds is my passion and I specialize in teaching my clients how to reframe their thinking to move away from the negative events in the past into a more hopeful future. One of the ways we do this is learn to work on encouraging others.

In the DaySpring article, “Why Are We Called to Encourage?”, Gini wrote, “We all know this world can be tough. It’s easy to lose sight of what’s truly important in a world where we are dealing with daily strife, uphill battles, and the looming pressure to make everything okay. Many experience discouragement and this leads to giving in - throwing in the towel and saying ‘nevermind, I give up.’ This is where encouraging others is essential.” * Gini further wrote, “We must be willing to look outside of our box, forgive as God has forgiven us (Ephesians 4:32), and reach out beyond our comfort zone to reach those who may need a little extra attention.”

Like Gini says, encouragement is an essential part of supporting one another through life’s challenges. Let us help those around us move through these speed bumps and if you or someone you care about need focused support, I am here to assist!

*Gini. “Why Are We Called to Encourage.” DaySpring, August 18, 2022

Article: The Big Difference of Simple Encouragement

Pleasant words are like a honeycomb, Sweetness to the soul and health to the bones. (Proverbs 16:24)

Ten Simple Things to Say to Encourage Someone Today

I see you.
I’m proud of you.
God made you beautiful.
You shine doing that thing you’re created to do.
I’m thankful for you.
You inspire me.
I appreciate your hard work.
God delights in you.
You make my day brighter.
I’m blessed to call you friend.

“Look for that frazzled mom in the grocery store or that shy coworker in the corner cubicle. Think of your best friend, school secretary, or the crossing guard you pass every day. Stop and say, Thank you. I see you. You’re making a difference.” *

May we be women who encourage one another to keep on keepin’ on. May our steps lighten with God’s joy and strength as we do.

*Becky Kiefe. “The Big Difference of Simple Encouragement.” DaySpring, September 12, 2017

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